Sachin Mehta : Dissolving the Hurt in Relationship
DISSOLVING THE HURT IN RELATIONSHIPS
In Our life, we saw how attachment creeps into relationships that are so dear to us and creates hurt. We are aware that forgiveness dissolves negativity and makes it easier to let go of hurt. Yet a hurt mind will often be in no mood to forgive the other person. This is because forgiveness is connected to attachment. Greater the attachment, more difficult it becomes to forgive.
- When relationships involve physical, mental or emotional attachments, the hurt is bound to leave deep scars and make it nearly impossible for love to re-surface. Over a period, attachment stops us from experiencing the power that comes from forgiving. Love without attachment makes it easier to forgive mistakes.
- When untreated, emotional hurt creates an invisible shield making it hard for us to move freely, making us feel stiff and unprotected. This shield can sometimes deprive us of opportunities for self-improvement through meaningful inner conversations, to comfort the mind and release the hurt. We continue to live in our self-created cocoon of pain. Effectively we close our doors to love from others, and to the healer in us.
Everyone has different thresholds for hurt creation and subsequent healing. So patience is priceless. And in the situation involving another person, compassion, consideration and sensitivity towards them heal effectively. If we lighten our state of being with these qualities, we value the relationship. We will not let the hurt linger on and leave bitter impressions. Our energy revives love in the strained relationship and allows it to blossom again.
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